Preparing for Critical Conversations as Allies for Equity
As allies and advocates, we’d like to engage in dialogues on equity and justice with our beloved friends and families. But we also know that such conversations can be particularly tense if our friends and family have not taken the time to examine their privileges. In this Ally Tips, we want to encourage you to reflect on how you’ve approached these conversations, what we know about how/why they happen, and ways that you can prepare for any potential conversations you might encounter. Going into critical (i.e., difficult) conversations without preparing will often lead to conflict. Knowing this, we often respond to these situations with silence. Allyship is a practice that needs to happen in all parts of our lives, requiring the intentionality to show up and educate our peers/communities with privileged identities about sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, and other systems of oppression that shape our world. Therefore, being prepared for critical conversations is part of being an ally.